Wednesday, September 29, 2010
Progress...
So I am set ...the only bad thing is if I go in and they say no false labor I have to re-sign the paperwork boo. But I hopefully don't anticipate that. And I can just call a number ahead of time and they get my room and everything ready (once they check me out to know I am in deed in labor).
And I registered to donate our cord blood. It's a great program to bank it privately but the expense just doesn't make sense especially if never use it and if some other child could use it well then that would be fantastic. And she said that we can withdrawal at any time (like even 10 years from now...though I don't know why we would want to) and she said something about if after a certain time it's still available and Ava or a family member needs it they can get on a list to try and get it which I thought was cool.
So glad that I'm done with all the hospital mumbo jumbo.
Just took a look at my To Do's on my 33 week update.
I have bought the storage cabinet for the bathroom and last night Mr. B and I put it together...that was fun! haha and tonight I'll fill er up.
I have cleared out some cabinet space for all of Ava's stuff but that's a work in progress because I need more room.
So all I need to do now is clear off the hutch, vacuum my car out, and install the car seat which the last two will be done on Sunday.
Glad things are getting done!
Tuesday, September 28, 2010
My big baby girl...
Monday, September 27, 2010
Ok so...
So I'll transfer all the guest towels to this and find some cute stuff to put in the shelves and then Ava can have the wider cabinet under the sink since we'll have more then just towels for her.
Weeee
Friday, September 24, 2010
33 Week Pic
Weekly Update: Week 33
Countdown:
82.5% through pregnancy, 46.2% through 3rd tri. 50 days until due date, 29 days until full term. 7 weeks of work left (If I go to the end)
How big is baby?
Let’s see. If we’re gaining 8 ounces a week I'm guessing here but since I saw rolls a few weeks ago I'm going with she's either right below or right at 5lbs now.
Weight gain/loss?
Up 35lbs as of last doctors visit so I'm going with 36 this week (let's hope)
Stretchies?
None...I'm knocking on wood. Very lucky. The boobs have started to mesh with my regular color skin whoot!
Sleep?
I’m sleeping through the night (minus the pee breaks every hour past midnight) but it’s not restful sleep
Best Moment?
Getting Ava's baby book in and filling it out to when she arrives :)
Movement?
Serious rolling. Every time I think she's flipped to head down then I feel to hard spots in a different position and I never know. Her hick up's are super intense now hah
Food Cravings?
Nothing out of the ordinary
Labor Signs?
Having Braxton Hicks and they are getting much more severe
What I’m looking forward to next week?
Finally seeing my real doctor for my 34 week appointment. I haven't seen her since Week 20 since she was on leave herself and then getting acclimated. I'll be very interested to see how she reacts to my size haha
Weekly Wisdom?
Take it easy and put your feet up. When the baby comes all you should worry about doing is sleeping, and feeding Ava (my wonderful mother in law is going to be an awesome help)
Emotions?
For the sake of my marriage I am so happy I have evened out haha
This Week:
Nursery is finished as far as everything needed. I just need to clear off the Hutch and make it look pretty. Both Ava and my bags are packed and in her room just hanging out waiting patiently :) I'm going to be clearing out a cabinet in our kitchen for all of her bottles and the sanitizer. We're also buying an additional storage unit for the bathroom so that we have a place to put Ava's bajillin things :) Vacuuming my car out and cleaning out my trunk to get prepared for installing the car seat and putting the stroller in the trunk. I think that's enough for one week don't you?!
Thursday, September 23, 2010
Whoa...
30 Days....what???????????
Now that makes it very real!
I actually think it would be cute for them to share a bday but want her to go a little later because that puts me back at work the Monday after New Years and I'd much rather start back up on the 10th or 17th (if she goes to the end).
As luck would have it I was complaining on FB a couple of weeks ago about being wait listed still for many Daycares despite calling and being put on the wait list months ago. Well Mr. B's cousin used to work at the one that was Mr. B's first choice (happened to be really expensive) and she said do not take your child there and she actually quit.
Well she was chatting and it came about that her little brother who's about 16 his girlfriend works at a daycare in my area on the way to work in the afternoons and she thought they had spots open for infants and it was 150 a week (which is what we were prepared to spend)
I just called and she said that one lady is ahead of me and she's due in October so she'll need to start right at the beginning of January but they have one spot open so that will go to her and a baby graduates to the 1 year old room in January so that could be my spot.
She said it was looking very very hopeful and promising that I would get in when I need it and she put me on the wait list.
She really wants me to stop by which of course I would definitely do that before putting Ava there. I love when the places say stop in whenever because that gives me a better indicator on how Ava will be treated vs when they want us to schedule and appointment with the Director because then they'll be prepared.
She said that the 1 year old teacher is great but the infant teacher is so fantastic that parents actually get upset when their children reach 1 because they love her so much and they end up loving the 1 year old teacher too but you get used to your child being with someone for 9-10 months I can understand how it might be hard to transition over.
But now the problem is figuring out when I can just pop in because I have finally worked out a deal with my boss about staying later on days of the week when I have my doctors appointments but I always pick the earliest appointment because that ensures I actually get seen fairly close the the appointment time and can get to work faster. Very rarely does my doctor ever have an appointment later than 3 and I really need it to be 3:30 ish so I only have to stay late 2 days vs 3 days. And then if I could manage a late appointment I could have time to stop by but then I wouldn't want to stop by when everyone would be picking up their kids because I'm sure that would be stressful as well.
So who knows. But when I do go in and see if I like it I'm going to ask if I can pay the registration fee then and maybe ensure my spot. I understand them wanting money right away so if someone walked in and wanted to start tomorrow and they were making an extra 150 a week they would take that instead of waiting until January but I think it will be good. We'll see
Want to see...
You can get your very own at Luckymade. That's her Etsy shop and she makes adorable crocheted items. I seriously can't wait to do a photography session with lil miss Ava in that adorable hat!
Monday, September 20, 2010
Lists...Lists...and More Lists
But it's one thing to make a list and it's another to actually follow through.
My lists recently were for my hospital stay bag and Ava's as well.
Today I ran to Target to try and get some things.
I got me...
Small deodorant
Small toothbrush/toothpaste pack
Lip Balm
Small Shampoo/Conditioner
Small face wash
A nursing bra (I guessed on the size and got a 38 DD since they are 38D's now...I hear they get bigger but heck how am I to know what size they'll be?)
A nursing tank top
Some black kind of bikini briefs figuring black was best those first few days haha
I looked at PJ's but didn't want to pay that much at target for something I have at home.
I have a few pairs of black pj/yoga pants that I can bring and I'll live in those and my nursing bra most likely.
Then I can just bring some socks from home and a zip up hoodie or sweatshirt
and my other little things
I also picked out the outfit that I want Ava's pictures to be in but I'll run it by Mr. B first.
And then I have 2 outfits for her going home. One are actually PJ's but they are cute and the other the in law's got so I feel like I should have her wear it.
The baby book is finally on it's way ugh...the one I had on my registry got taken off and then it was at Kohl's but then before I could order it was discontinued poop.
So I found one on Target's site but it's being sent via usps so who really knows when I'll get it. I'd like to update some things in there before she comes but then need to make sure that goes into my bag so they can do her foot print.
Oh and I started leaking today...but just out of my right boob haha I felt something kind of cool but nothing serious. So when I went to the bathroom and checked it was there...not a lot but I was like dang I wish I would've bought some pads for the maternity bra haha
And then I happened to find a cute polka dot sheet for Ava's mattress because you need extra for sure. Right now we have the one on that came with the set, and I had bought a striped one from Target a while back and then Mr. B's cousin gave us a sheet but it doesn't go at all with the bedding and will only be used as a last resort if others are dirty so I figured one more can't hurt.
And nobody bought the other changing table cover so I wanted to have a spare for when there are accidents.
Then I got her some noonies just to have in her bag ready to go.
And then haha I wanted to get a light for her room and they had a white base lamp on clearance for like 2.50!!! The shade was 8 eh but oh well a lamp for 10.50 can't beat it right?!
Not sure where I'm going to put it but I'm going to put a low lit bulb in there so I can see what I'm doing at night.
Well Mr. B in law got the job in Texas and it looks like he'll be flying tomorrow or Wednesday to go start! Crazy! I don't know when we'll see him though because he said he's going to help with putting Ava's wall letter's up but I doubt that will happen and Mr. B and I will have to do it and then I should just do it on my own haha.
Mr. B is going out of town starting tomorrow but he'll be back Thursday...I told him he better get his traveling in this week, next, and the week after because after that I don't feel comfortable with him traveling. I'll be 35 weeks at that point and that will just be too close unless he's staying somewhere like Lake Charles which is about 2 hours away from the hospital.
I didn't sleep well at all last night! My back was killing me ugh...and of course the Saints game doesn't start until 7:30 tonight so I'll most likely not make it through the whole thing unfortunately. oh well
I'm running to get Hooters for us....I always think it's funny being pregnant beboping into Hooters...hey at least these big bad boys are real...doubt the men would want leaky big boobs but hey you never know haha
Friday, September 17, 2010
poop
This flu thing that I have sucks...
I never like to puke, or poop well when I mean poop I mean gross all the time poop (told you I'd be honest on here) but honestly being pregnant and sick is the worst!
You have to eat because you have a baby to take care of but honestly the thought of eating makes me want to puke!
And then when I do eat I poop
So I'm in a no win situation.
Water makes me feel sick too.
I went and laid on the floor in my conference two different times for 30 minutes each today and that wasn't bad but as soon as I get up I'm feeling it.
I hope I feel well enough tomorrow for the game darn it!
Weekly Update: Week 32
How big is baby? about 18 inches (head to feet) and about 4 pounds
Weight gain/loss? 35 lbs..so only about a lb a week which is normal...glad I've slowed
Maternity clothes? exclusively plus a swellybelly band
Stretchies? Still just the ones on my boobs thank goodness
Sleep? This week has been a freaking nightmare. I could handle peeing a lot but now I'm just uncomfortable and can't breathe
Best moment this week? Making it to 32 weeks!
Movement? oh all over ...5am this morning she would hit the left then the right...left then right...I bet it looked hilarious
Food cravings? none
Food aversions/foods that make me sick? none
Gender? Girl!
Labor signs? Some BH going on. Once a day usually I'll get an intense one that's sever cramping for a few seconds
Belly button in or out? Out for good now
What I miss? sex and walking normal
What I am looking forward to next week? Just another week closer to meeting my baby girl
Milestones? honestly I've been feeling sick the past two days so I'm not thinking of anything haha
New things this week? I got the flu like symptoms from the little girl and lady that threw my shower for me. It sucks..today I really haven't eaten much. A bagel with cheese, a big orange, and some animal crackers. Water doesn't even feel good.
Weekly Wisdom? Get some comfy cloths/pj's for the hospital/when you get home since you'll live in them.
Emotions? They have evened out unless Mr. B says something stupid of course haha
Belly/Body Changes? swelling in my feet and ankles...belly continues to grow haha...hips hurt a lot
Wednesday, September 15, 2010
Do you...
Yah that's 59 days folks...59 days! Yikes! That's really not that long yet it still seems so far away. I started feeling this way at like week 28 where it has gone by super fast but at the same time stood still...I don't know it's hard to describe but another momma to be agreed with me, but she's 36.5 weeks so she's lucky she's almost there!
Oh and my In Law's are coming back tonight haha
Too bad they even had to leave on Sunday!
Mr. B in law has a job interview in Beaumont Tx tomorrow. That's about 45 minutes west of Uncle Benny and about 3 hours from us...which is much better than the 8ish that it takes to get to TN.
Meanwhile Mrs. B in law is going to wash and iron (her choice not mine) the rest of Ava's clothes that we got from them and the shower and she said she'll do anything else I need like clear out my cabinets in the kitchen haha.
I do need to make room for cabinet for Ava's stuff since she now has a cute lil Ava sippy cup her daddy got her, and she has a ton of bottles that we just got and LSU ones too haha and I'm sure before I know it she'll be getting bowls and what not. I wouldn't mind just putting her bibs in there but not sure the cabinet can hold the 52 gazillion that we have already haha
I hope Mr. B in law can help Mr. B hang Ava's wall letters on Friday because I don't trust Mr. B to do it on his own and he was going to do it on Sunday and now he's going golfing...which is fine by me...it'll be nice to have a day to sleep in and relax especially since Saturday is the LSU game
I seriously can't breath anymore and it's annoying and getting my anxious which I know won't help the breathing situation. On the right where it has already updated and said 32 weeks it said that she maybe flipping to head down soon because right now she's lying from side to side very very high so maybe if she flips to head down that will help.
The only relief I get is if I'm sitting in my work chair and bend over sort of like when they tell you to put your head between your legs if you're hyperventilating...and clearly I can't sit like that all day...I wouldn't get any work done and folks would probably think I was nuts hah
I was just sitting here thinking what if I had Ava when I'm full term at 37 weeks...that's only 5.5 weeks away...now that my friends seems much closer than 2 months. Mr. B would sure love that since it's his bday but I really want to make sure that I don't come back to work until after the first of the year because I get that day paid and it's an extra day with little miss thing.
I'm already getting discouraged trying to figure out who will be visiting when. Everyone wants to come at the same time and I know I just can't handle having more than one set of folks there even if they're in a hotel.
We'll see....
Monday, September 13, 2010
Randoms...
Sorry it's dark but the flash wouldn't show anything. Super cute!
Here are Ava's wall letters. So happy with how they turned out. Now I just need to hang them once Mr. B goes out of town haha.
Oh we're selling the Escort finally whoop! Mr. B's co-worker car crapped out so he came to look at it yesterday and went and got a fuel pump and was trying to change that thing in the dark last night at like 9....umm yah not cool but whateva's...but since the battery had been sitting for a couple of months (even though it's new) of course it was dead...so they're charging it today and tonight he's coming back to finish. I just pray it's just the fuel pump but from talking with folks who've had that issue it sounds like it's it. I mean it sat for like 2 years not being driven so it makes sense and that happened on my old probe too. Just happy to be getting money and it would be perfect timing because we'd use that money to supplement my income when I'm only being paid 60% for maternity leave.
So say a little vibe for me! hah
Couples Shower!
I'm tired of fiddling trying to get enough space in between the pictures to talk about them.
1st- Me at 31 weeks.
2nd- We played a game where instead of just trying to guess how much toilet paper goes around me we do it for the couple. Mr. B was THRILLED let me tell you hah
3rd- Let the measuring begin!
4th- I am in love with that bunny that has it's own little blanky that says Ava Grace on it...how stinkin cute!
5th- Mr. B partaking in the men's game of who can suck the beer out of the bottle first.
6th- The other guys.
7th- Auntie Mel and I...does my belly look huge or what?!
8th- Shannon, Me, and Mel (Shannon and her husband put the shower together and did a FANTASTIC JOB!)
9th- Shannon, Amanada, Me, and Mel. Little Miss Amanda wanted me to have her going home beanie cap for Ava...that was the sweetest thing ever!
Friday, September 10, 2010
Weekly Update: Week 31
How big is baby? 18 inches (head to feet) and 3.5 pounds
Weight gain/loss? 33 lbs..sticking to that until I get weighed next week
Maternity clothes? exclusively plus a swellybelly band
Stretchies? Still just the ones on my boobs thank goodness
Sleep? Is good until I have to pee like 5 times a night haha
Best moment this week? Seeing my baby girl in 3D! And my shower this Saturday!
Movement? oh all over and much harder
Food cravings? none
Food aversions/foods that make me sick? none
Gender? Girl!
Labor signs? Some BH going on. Once a day usually I'll get an intense one that's sever cramping for a few seconds
Belly button in or out? Out for good now
What I miss? sex and walking normal
What I am looking forward to next week? 2 months left if we go to the due date!
Milestones? 95-96% viability!!
New things this week? Severe hip pain in my right side (not surprising since I had surgery on my left knee a few years back and have used my right leg as a crutch but now that I have the weight and every thing's shifting it's really hurting)
Weekly Wisdom? Eat before you go to the hospital. It will feel like you have to poop haha
Emotions? even....just getting anxious
Belly/Body Changes? swelling in my feet and ankles...belly continues to grow haha...hips hurt a lot
Thursday, September 9, 2010
My Beautiful Baby Girl...
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
random survey
What kind of Pregnancy test did you take? i don't know..i had ordered some strips and the next day got a digital
How many? 3 strips haha I was in disbelief and then 1 digital
What were your 1st symptoms? before: boob tenderness and having to pee a ton...after: being sick
Who did you tell first? Mr. B
Who was with you when you found out? I peed alone then got Mr. B from outside
My 1st reaction: I was dumbfounded because I didn't think I really could be...my strips had come in for when I was planning on testing in a month
Was your baby planned? yeah that we were trying ...trying virgins haha
When was the baby conceived? Feb 20th
How far were you when you found out? 5 weeks exactly
How did your parents react? My dad was worried about how old he was getting but my In Law's were excited!
My baby
Due Date: November 13, 2010
Do you know the sex? a girllllll
Any names? Ava Grace
Any Ultrasounds? at 7W, 20W, and 24 W...we're also getting a 3D/4D on Thursday (so 31W) and I'm assuming we'll get one later on to make sure she's head down and all good
Have you heard the heart beat? Of course we have! We have a home Doppler haha
Who do you think it will look like? Pretty sure she has my toes haha...and I think she has Mr. B's nose. But we'll really get to see on Thursday! Can't wait!
Will the baby have siblings? Hopefully
Have you felt the baby move? Movement sounds so tame haha
Miscellaneous
Did you have morning sickness? From 6w through week 14 or 15. Every. Damn. Day.
Did you have any cravings? not really
Did you have any mood swings? oh gosh yes...that was a nightmare!
Are you a high risk pregnancy? Nope.
Any complications? Nope.
Formula or Breastfeeding? The boob!
Have you bought anything for the baby yet? Yep. Its really hard to not buy her pretty clothes! We have the furniture and we're just waiting on the shower and whatever we don't get we will.
When did you start to show? I would say around week 13 really
How long could you wear your regular clothes? Since I wear a lot of dresses I was able to do that until about week 14..then I got a few things here and there.
Will you keep the baby’s clothes? I'm sure we'll keep the cute ones that aren't destroyed haha
Home or Hospital? Hospital.
Natural or Medicated birth? Medicated
Who will be in the delivery room with you? Mr. B and Mr. B's mom
Do you think you will need a C-section? I sure hope not.
Will you cry when you hold the baby for the 1st time? Knowing me..yes haha
What’s the 1st thing you might say to the baby? Probably something like "you're so beautiful...I love you"
Will you let anyone video tape the birth? You know I forgot to ask if the hospital lets us
Are you excited? While this seems like such a dumb and quite obvious question, yes I am. It’s starting to become real as the weeks go by.
Who will help you with the baby after the birth? Mrs. B in law will be here the 1stish week, then my grandparents will come, and then after that My aunt, uncle, and cousins will come.
What is your favorite thing about being pregnant? Having my big belly haha
What is the worst thing about being pregnant? the sickness I had for so long...the loss of breath due to Ava taking over my lung space hah
What’s one thing you miss doing since being pregnant? Sleep.
Any days you wish you were not pregnant? Of course not.
Are you ready for a baby? I think so! Ready as we’ll ever be
Do you have insurance? yup
How many kids do you want? 3 but will be happy with 2
Do you talk to the baby? Yeah so does Mr. B
Do you still feel attractive? Most days until I look at my ever growing thighs
Have you had your baby shower yet? this weekend
Do you like kids? Love them.
How far along are you now? 30.5 weeks
Weekly Update: Week 30
How big is baby? 17 inches (head to feet) and 3.5 pounds
Weight gain/loss? 33 lbs
Maternity clothes? exclusively plus a swellybelly band for shirts that are too short (looks like I have a shirt underneath) and the underclothes suspenders to keep my pants up...thanks to Jin because that thing rocks!
Stretchies? Still just the ones on my boobs thank goodness
Sleep? Is good until I have to pee like 5 times a night haha
Best moment this week? another week closer
Movement? oh all over and much harder
Food cravings? none
Food aversions/foods that make me sick? none
Gender? Girl!
Labor signs? Some BH going on. Once a day usually I'll get an intense one that's sever cramping for a few seconds
Belly button in or out? Sometimes it's really out and sometimes it's just semi hah
What I miss? sex and walking normal
What I am looking forward to next week? NINE WEEKS TO GO. AHHHH!
Milestones? 95-96% viability!!
New things this week? The waddle. Feet hurt after walking for about 10 minutes. Belly feels heavy every time I stand up.
Weekly Wisdom? take it easy
Emotions? even....just getting anxious
Belly/Body Changes? swelling in my feet and ankles...belly continues to grow haha...hips hurt a lot